Child abduction or seeking safety, TV programme

When the Family Courts order shared care with an abusive parent, is the other parent ever justified in seeking safety in another country with their child?

If a child is taken to a country that is a signatory to the ‘Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction’ against court orders, they can be ordered back to the country of residence.

But if the country isn’t signed up to the Convention, it is very difficult for the other parent to get them back.

This Auatralian programme asks what is being done to protect children who are abducted, and whether tightening the law (in Australia) would have any effect.
http://www.sbs.com.au/insight/episode/watchonline/471/Parental-Abductions

However, discussions of relocation consistently fail to highlight the plight of women who have moved away from their family and friends to another country to be with their partner or husband.

If the relationship fails the expectation of shared care can prevent the mother from accessing family support or returning to her own country, even when she is the primary carer and/ or the children have dual nationality.

When there is a history of domestic abuse, a previously uninvolved father can pursue shared care as a means to ensure the mother is totally isolated from her family and culture.

Taking children from their home and from a loving parent is potentially very damaging for all children.

However, when the family courts order unsupervised contact despite serious welfare concerns, or order shared care when there is on going domestic abuse – and the protective parent subsequently choses to leave the country - how do we decide what is in the child’s best interests?

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Going to court but frightened of your ex?

How the courts can help:

If you ring in advance of a hearing the court can often book you a separate waiting area.

Some court forms have a box to tick for this but do follow it up with a telephone call.

Ask when you sign in if you can sit separately, or in a private room.

If you are very worried about violence or intimidation, you may be able to enter and leave from a side door.

If you are representing yourself, the judge should prevent or stop any inappropriate behaviour in court, including inappropriate questions.

If you have to give evidence about abuse you can ask the court if you can give evidence from behind a screen, or via video link.

If this would help you, mention it when the judge fixes the date for the trial of your case. The court may need to book a room with special facilities.

More about representing yourself in court.

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Maypole web site up and running but sorry E mails still down

We are really pleased to have our web site up and running again after the technical difficulties of last week.

Unfortunately our E mails are still not working and all E mails are bouncing back to sender.

Our sincere apologies if this has affected you. We are working on the problem and will fix it as soon as we can.

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Domestic violence – the secret killer within our society

Viv Oyolu of Dream Corner on @ONFMRadio reflects on her recent radio show on domestic violence on her blog.

Guests on the show were Mavis Maclean, trustee of Maypole Women, Kate Smith and   Funmi Johnson.

It was a great show, covering lots of issues, and challenging myths.

Listen to the show here: Theme show – issues with domestic violence.

Read Viv’s blog here.

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